With Christmas, a trip to France and a visit to the Darts at Lakeside, I’ve experienced quite a bit of manouvering over the past few weeks on my crutches. Here’s what I’ve found…
Good Things:
- Service from the ferry company Brittany Ferries. We were parked right by a lift and two people came along to see me onto the ship with a wheelchair. It made things much much easier, although going through the self service canteen on a fairly swaying crossing was a bit tricky!
- Shopmobility! A trip to the shops at Farnborough was made possible by the fabulous Shopmobility service. I was registered there and then and given my own motorised scooter (with basket!) to tootle round on. I felt quite self-conscious though and discovered that shops aren’t really designed with scooter riders in mind – lots was out of reach, I couldn’t get down some shop aisles and felt very cumbersome in a cafe. But still – the scooter was ace and even got me over snow-ridden pavements!
shopmobility-tastic!
- People opening doors for you – these are often the trickiest things to do, particularly with heavy doors, and plenty of people offered to help me. Good eggs, all of you!
Bad Things:
- Drunk people. I was a bit scared at times at the darts of all the crowds of people swaying about. In one near-miss a very inebriated man swayed about a metre either side of what was a straight walk to the door of the smoking area outside. He very nearly got me! Luckily, I’m well sharp on my sticks so managed to dodge him!!
- Snow and Ice. Scary. Slippety.
- People can hear you coming – you may as well put a bell round your neck cos the rhythmic clack-clack of walking with crutches is a pure giveaway!
- Sneezing whilst trying to walk on crutches does not an elegant manouevre make. Knee spasm, pain and wobbles.
I don’t know what’s going on lately. Especially things at home with my parents. They’ve been so sensitive to every lil details, even the slightest issue. I don’t get it srsly. No idea what’s wrong. Things are supposed to turn for the better when school starts but I was apparently proven wrong. Last night was another dramamama with both mom and dad and that was it.
Think however you like I’m not bothering about their comments anymore since it doesn’t seem to get through them. Defiant? Please take a second look at the situation I don’t think there was anything wrong. More of people becoming more ridiculous, more demanding and not understand enough. I guess this is it, I had enough just like how you had.
Whatever happens to mutual understanding?
Not gonna harp on it no more, for the outcome turns out to be the same all over. I said my piece and that’d suffice.
Okay enough of emo random rantings this is so not me. It’s GP now and this morning, it struck me so hard: WHEN WILL I EVER BE READY FOR A’LEVEL? I know school barely even started but well, if you get what I mean.
Having to get used to sleep after midnight and waking up at 6 plus in the a.m everyday. Not staying up for nothing anymore but study. Tell me when am I ready? Shit, emo random musings again damn it!
On a lighter note, dearest michy’s big day this saturday so yay! (Y)
Back in the middle of the last century, Walt Disney and other scientists promised us an idyllic world. This technical heaven would magically appear when the calendar changed. The Twenty First Century became the trademark of the wonderful world it would be.
Highways would be marvelous carpets of technology that would guide us safely from point to point. There would no accidents because people would not be driving. Everything in the 21st century would be automatic.
I am not sure why we were going to put all of this effort into highways as we would have flying cars. To support them, every store, mall, house and other building would build complete landing and other facilities.
We would have lift nary a finger as robots would do all of our work for us. Ours would be a life of unbelievable ease and comfort. Even meals would be prepared in machines that would take about two seconds to pop one out after simply pushing a button.
Space travel would be the norm. Regular flights between Earth and the colonies on the moon and Mars would be like taking the Greyhound. Exploration would move well past Uranus and Jupiter.
Earth would be a Utopia. Wars would be a thing of the past. There would be a one world government. We would not even need money as all of mankind held hands and sang kumbyah.
This was supposed to have happened 10 years ago. I have been patient, I gave them an extra decade. But my patience it at an end.
What the hell happened? Were these people on future crack?
The highways have not changed at all. I mean literally. My grandpa bitched about the same potholes that now resemble archaeological digs.
Driving is not automatic but technology has definitely seeped in. Now a 90 pound housewife can pilot a 40 foot SUV while talking on the phone and texting the latest gossip. This greatly enhances our ability to be involved in an accident.
Which makes it a good thing that we did not get those flying cars. Can you imagine these women as well as drunks and the plethora of other kinds of idiots driving in three dimensions? Hell they cannot be bothered to look in the rearview mirror, let alone monitor traffic above and below them.
There might be one advantage. Cars probably would not have unneeded lifting power. So cars with 37 illegal immigrants in them could not get off the ground. Thus fewer people who were driving a donkey last week would create massive traffic jams because they can’t conceive of speeds over five miles an hour.
Computers and associated technologies have come a long way since UNIVAC. However machines are not doing our work for us. People in India are. It is not hard to determine if it is cheaper to build and maintain giant machines or pay a script-reading non-English speaker two chickens a day.
We do have a life of ease and comfort- as well as unemployment and high cholesterol. This is from doing nothing but watching endless repeats on HBO and playing World of Warcraft.
Food at the press of a button? That was has exceeded the vision. We don’t even have to do that much at the Wendy’s drive through. So I will concede one to the visionaries.
Space travel? We went the moon 40 years ago and, aside from shuttles that cannot leave Earth orbit, we have not even bothered to set up tents on the moon.
Utopia- that one is a punch line. We still have wars and crime and conflict. I have no idea why the prognosticators imagined that human nature would completely change in 50 years. Perhaps they thought LSD would be more popular than it has turned out to be.
Socialism is working toward a one world- at least a universal type- of government. This may accomplish the goal of a universal currency. But that won’t matter because none of us will have any money.
If mankind was to hold hands, we would all get the swine flu, e coli and a host of other infestations.
I can’t see how these intelligent men- scientists, authors, artists- could ever think these huge technical and social advances would happen by the time the new century arrived.
I don’t think they really did.
The 50’s and 60’s were decades of fear. The world had just survived the trauma of World War II. Before the dust had chance to settle, allies became enemies with terrible weapons in their hands. People in those times lived under the threat that, at any second, they would be turned to dust by an H-bomb.
Maybe the predictions of life in the 21st century were misplaced imaginings. It seems more likely that they were inspired by the hope that technology could accomplish what mankind was unable to do: to reach the dreams that were out of his reach.
For last year’s words belong to Last year’s language
And next year’s words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning
~T.S Eliot
Always have faith in tomorrow and believe in yourself, to all those of you visiting my blog I wish you all a wonderful 2010 and thank you for stopping by my blog.
Love gets bogged own in expectations. What a wonder it is so think someone is so fantastic just because of who they are and not because of what that give/mean to you. That is such a marvel! Real love, in my book.
My dad is one person who I love like this. He’s just so wonderful. So wise. I can’t even describe him. I want to be just like him.
I think I usually fail to love China Man, like I described. I always seem to want something from him… I want him to want me. That’s my failure in this relationship.
Sometimes though, like today… I’m reminded that he is just fantastic. He’s interesting, engaging, funny, etc. He doesn’t have to love me, or even want me. I just think he’s fantastic. I’m so happy he exists! What remarkable flavor he adds to the concoction of the world! Wonderful… he’s just wonderful.
In regard to me moving to China… don’t worry… I’m finally – for once – not considering it. I thought about it though. It’s nothing here that’s keeping me, I’m not terribly fond of my job at this point, nor my apartment, nor my social life. It’s all fine, just not enough to keep me here. What keeps me from going to China is our (China Man and my) relationship.
He’s just still not sure he wants me. Sometimes he does, but then he wants me right then. When the desire passes, he’s fine… back to not sure if he wants me. Maybe I’m wrong, but that’s how it feels. It’s okay with me, I just can’t move there for him when he’s still undecided. No matter how much more attractive that life looks to me, than the one I’m currently living.
I’ll tell him all this, if we ever talk about it. I think he knows he’s still not sure he wants me though and will put off the conversation. I’m okay with that though too… I think I have peace.
Christmas is just about over for another year, just the big family party this evening, and so I thought I should reflect on what has happened since last year.
Good things,
General makeing good on house has been really rewarding
New bathroom, involving nice new tools
Allotment
Bad things
NO pay rise!
Fairly depressing work year
Generally I think I have to count myself lucky that I still have a job but I can’t say its been rewarding. However at home we have improved our house garden massively.
